March is National Talk to Your Teen about Sex Month and in celebration we challenge you to take the plunge and sit down with your teen (or teens take the initiative and sit down with your parents) to discuss the importance of healthy sexuality.
Here are some pointers that may make “the talk” a little less intimidating:
• Start early! Children start to receive sexual messages as soon as they’re born. The earlier you begin, the easier it becomes until there is an open, honest dialogue about sex. And don’t worry if you haven’t started the conversation yet: It’s never too late!
• It’s OK to be uncomfortable with the subject matter…many people feel that way. Don’t be afraid to admit to your teen that the subject may be a little difficult for you to discuss, but that you’re going to do your best.
• Be open and available when your teen wants to talk. Sometimes it’s hard to get someone to open up and feel comfortable talking, especially when it comes to sexual subject matter. Initiate dialogue when possible and remember to be persistent, not pushy and understanding, not critical.
• Reassure your teen that his/her sexuality and feelings are normal.
• Foster an environment of mutual respect.
Parents may also want to consider asking the following questions:
1. Do you know how to protect yourself against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections?
2. What pressures are you feeling and how are you handling those pressures?
3. How are your social relationships?
4. What are your worries or fears?
5. What information about sex do you hear at school or from your peers?
Remember that parents have the opportunity to be the best source of sexual health information for their teens. We hope that you’ll take this challenge to celebrate National Talk to Your Teen about Sex Month by opening up the lines of communication about healthy sexuality.
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